in this earth are short. He has other friends here, of
course--old friends, but you--" again she stopped. "You will
appreciate
why when you see him."
So we gave up the poor travesty upon life that we should have
seen behind the footlights for a glimpse into one of life's real
dramas.
It was nearly midnight before we came to Neuilly and stood
awkwardly beside the white cot in the little white room where the
Gilded Youth was lying. How the gilding had fallen off! All white
and broken he lay, a crushed wreck of a man, with the cluttering
contrivances of science swathing him, binding him, encasing
him, holding him miserably together while the tide of life ran
out. But when he wakened he could smile. There was real gilding
in that smile, the gilding of youth, but he only flashed his eyes
upon us for a fleeting second in turning his smile to her--to the
Eager Soul, to her who had brought some new incandescence into
his life. Then we knew why his aunt had said that we should see
him. He would have us who had witnessed the planting of the seed,
know how it had flowered. His smile told us that also. He could
lift no hand to us, and could speak but faintly. Yet his greeting
held something princely in it--
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fine and sweet and brave. Then he did a curious thing. He began
whistling very softly under his breath and between his teeth a
queer little tune, that reminded one oddly of the theme of
Tschaicovski's Symphony Pathétique--the first movement. As he
whistled he turned from Henry and me and looked at the Eager
Soul, who smiled back intelligently, and when she smiled he
stopped. We could not understand their signals. But whatever it
was so far as it pretended to a show of courage, we knew that it
was a gorgeous bluff. In the fleeting glance that he gave us, he
told us the truth; and we knew that he was pretending to the
others that he did not know. We made some cheerful nothings in
our talk, and would have gone but he held us. The Eager Soul
looked at her watch, gave him some medicine, which we took to be
a heart stimulant; for he revived under it, and said to me:
"Remember--that night at Douaumont?"
"Where you whistled the 'Meditation from Thais,' in the
moonlight?"
"Yes," he murmured, "and we--watched--the trucks--come out of the
mist--full of life--and go into the mist,--toward death."
"Wonderful--wasn't it!" sighed one of us.
"Symbolic," he whispered. And our eyes fol-
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lowed his to the vivid face of the Eager Soul in the halo of her
nurse's cap. She was exceedingly glorious, and animate and
beautiful. And he was passing into the mist, out toward death.
He saw that he had got the figure to me, and smiled. Then
suddenly something came into his face from afar, and he seemed to
know that his frail craft had mounted the out-going tide Slowly,
very slowly life began to fade from his face. Further and further
from shore the tide was bearing him. We seemed to be on the pier.
The Eager Soul even leaned forward and put out a pretty hand, and
waved at him. He signalled back with a twitch of his lips that
was meant for a smile. And then we at the pier lost the last
gleam of life and saw only the broken bark, wearily riding the
racing tide.
And then we turned from the pier and went our several ways back
into the midst of life. We were going home, and getting ready to
go home is a joyous proceeding. And there was another
significance to our packing to leave Paris. It meant something
more than a homeward journey; It meant that for the first time
since we left Wichita and Emporia in midsummer we were turning
our backs on war. It took a tug to make the turn. From all over
the earth the
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war draws men to it like an insatiable whirlpool. And as we came
nearer and nearer to war we had felt it swallow men into its
vortex--men, customs, institutions, civilizations, indeed the age
and epoch wherein we lived, we had felt moving into chaos--into
nothing, to be reborn some day into we know not what, in the
cataclysm out there on the front. We had seen it. But seeing it
had revealed nothing. For many nights we had heard the distant
roar of the hungry guns ever clamouring for more food, for the
blood of youth, for the dreams of age, for the hopes of a race,
for the creed of an era. And we left them still ravening, mad and
unsated. And we were going away as dazed as we were when we came.
But as we packed our things in Paris, the thrall of it still
gripped us and the consciousness that we were leaving the war was
as strong in our hearts as the joy we felt at turning homeward.
But we got aboard the train and rode during the long lovely
morning down the wide rich valley of the Seine, past Rouen,
through Normandy with its steep hills which seem reflected in the
sharp peaked roofs of its chateaux, and through musty mediaeval
towns, in which it was hard to realize that modern industry was
hiving. The hum of industry seemed badly out of key in a
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town with a cathedral whose architectural roots are a thousand
years old, and whose streets have not yet been veined with
sewers, and whose walls are gay with the facades of the fifteenth
century. The whole face of the landscape, town and country side,
seemed to us like the back drop of the first act in a comic
opera, and we were forever listening for "The Chimes of
Normandy!" Instead we heard the noon whistle. It was tremendously
incongruous. How American humour cracks into sardonic ribaldry at
the spectacle. The French are the least bit unhappy about this
American humour. They don't entirely see it. Once outside of a
poor French village near the war zone, that had been bombed from
the German lines, bombed from the German airships and ravaged by
fire and sword, some American soldiers, looking at the desolation
and the ruin of the place, so grotesque in its gaping death, so
hopeless in its pitiful finality, painted on a large white board,
and nailed on a sign post just at the edge of the town this
slogan:
"Watch Commercy Grow! Boost for the Old Town!"
But in that flash of humour the tragedy of Commercy stood
revealed clearer than in a flood of tears!
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We came at the end of the morning "to a port in France." From
there we were to take the boat for England. And it seemed to us
that the whole place was bent on the same errand. English
soldiers going home on leave jammed the streets. They filled the
hotels; they crowded into the shops. And the whole town was made
over for them. "French Spoken Here" was the facetious sign
someone had stuck on a postcard shop near the grey old church on
the main thoroughfare. It is curious how the English put their
trade mark upon the places they occupy. These French ports filled
with British soldiers look more English than England. The English
demand their own cooking, their own merchandise, their own
tobacco, their own beer--which is stale, flat and unprofitable
enough these days--and they demand their native speech. When he
gets in sight of his native land the British Tommy quits saying
"Donny mo-i, de tabac! Ma'mselle!" But bellows forth both loud
and long, "I say, Lizz, gimme some makin's! and look alive,
please!" So when we went to bed in our boat in a French port, and
slept through a submarine zone, and waked up in an English port,
there was no vast difference in the places. Today Southampton
and Dover are much like Calais and Havre; for
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there the English do most congregate. But back of the French
ports it is all France, and back of the English ports is England,
and worlds lie between them. England, as one rides through it who
lives beyond the seas, and uses the English tongue, always must
seem like the unfolding of an old, old dream. England gives her
step-children the impression that they have seen it all before!
And they have; in Mother Goose, in Dickens, in Shakespeare, in
Thackeray, in Trollope, in the songs of British poets, in the
landscapes of British artists! At every turn of the road, in
every face at the window, in every hedgerow and rural village is
the everlasting reminder that we who speak the English tongue are
bound with indissoluble links of our foster memories from the
books and the arts, to ways of thinking and living and growing in
grace that we call English. It is more than a blood or breed,
more even than a civilization, is this spiritual inheritance that
comes from this English soil; it is the realization in life of a
philosophy, the dramatization of a human creed. It may be
understood, but not defined, yet it is as palpable and
substantial in this earth as any material fact. Germany knows
what this English philosophy means; and for half a century
Germany has been preparing to combat
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it. Napoleon knew it, and believed in it, when he declared
three-fourths of every fact is its spiritual value. France has
it, new Russia is struggling for it. American life has it as an
ancient inheritance, and as we Americans rode through the green
meadows of England up from the coast to London, for ever
reviewing familiar scenes and faces and aspects of life that we
had never seen before, we realized how much closer than blood or
geography or politics men grow who hold the same creed. So Henry,
feeling that restraints no longer were necessary when we were as
near home as England, began fussing with an Englishman about
something a speaker had said in parliament the day before. We may
love the French, like the ladies, God bless 'em! But we quarrel
only with the English.
When we came to London we saw, even as we whirled through the
grey old streets, surface differences between London and the
other capitals of the Allies, so striking that they were marked
contrasts. These differences marked the different reactions of
personal loss upon the different nations. France expresses her
loss in mourning; she relieves her emotions in visible grief.
Italy does this also; but her losses have been smaller than the
French losses and Italy's sorrow is less
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in evidence than is the woe of France. But England's master
passion in this war is pride. "In proud and loving memory" is a
phrase that one sees a hundred times every day in the obituary
notices of those who have died for England. Ambassador Page tells
this: He was asking a British matron about her family, severally,
and when he inquired about the son, she replied, "Haven't you
heard of the new honour that has come to us through him?" And to
her friend's negative she returned: "He has been called upon to
die for England!" Now that seems rather French in its dramatics
than British. Yet it reflects exactly the British attitude. The
women wear no mourning. They do not go about in bright colours by
any means. Bright colours in the war distinguish the men. But the
women do wear dark blues, lavenders and purples, dark wine
colours and neutral tints of various hues. The shop windows of
London are bright. There is a faint re-echo of the time when
Great Britain said, "Business as usual." The busy life, the
shopping crowds, the street throngs, and the heavy streams of
trade that flow through the highways of London, prove that London
still is a great city--the greatest city in the world: and even
the war, black and dread and horrible as it is, cannot over-
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come London, entirely. Something of the fact that she is the
world's metropolis, more permanent than the war, somewhat apart
from the war, and indeed above it, still lingers in the London
consciousness, however remotely.
One must not imagine that London is unchanged. It is greatly
changed, for the men are gone. One sees fewer men in London out
of uniform than in Paris. And the Londoners one does see, all
appear to be hurrying about war work. But it is the women
constantly in evidence who have changed the face of London. Women
keep the shops, conduct the busses, run the street cars, drive
the trucks, sit on the seats of the horse-drays, deliver freight,
manage railway trains, sweep the streets, wait on the tables,
pull elevator ropes, smash baggage at the railway stations, sell
tickets, usher at the theaters, superintend factories, make
munitions, lift great burdens before forges, plough, reap, and
stack grain and grass on farms, herd sheep in waste places, hew
wood and draw water, and do all of the world's work that man has
ever done. Now, of course, women are doing these things elsewhere
in the world. But London and England are man's domain. It seems
natural to see the French women, and even the Italian women at
work. Man is more
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or less the leisure class on the continent. But London is a man's
town if on earth there is one, and to see women everywhere in
London is a curious and baffling sight.
Of course the men are not all dead--"they're just away." And they
come back on leave. But life is not normal. War is abnormal, and
there is an ever-urging desire of life to assume its normal
function. So all over Europe we heard whispers about the moral
break-down among the women of England. In England we were asked
about the dreadful things that were happening in France. The
things that were happening in France were not essentially evil
things. One could imagine that if God thinks war is necessary for
the solution of the world's terrible problems, He will have no
trouble forgiving these lapses that follow in the wake of war in
France. And in England, similarly we found that the moral break-
down was not a moral break-down at all. The abnormal relation of
the sexes arising out of war produced somewhat the same results
that one found in France, but in different ways. In France too
many strange men are billeted in the houses of the people. In
England, too many homes are without men at all. And sheer social
lonesomeness produces in humanity about the
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same conditions that arise when people are thrown in too close
contact. There is a sort of social balance of nature, wherein
normally desirable results are found. The girl working in the
munition factories, working at top speed eight hours a day,
filled with a big emotional desire to do her full duty to her
country every second of the day, finds it easy in her eight hours
of rest to fall in love with a soldier who is going out to offer
his life for the country for which she is giving her strength so
gladly. She is not a light woman. She is moved by deep and
beautiful emotions. And if a marriage before he goes out to fight
is inconvenient or impossible--the war made it so, and God will
understand. Of course the idle woman, the vain woman, the foolish
woman in these times in England finds ample excuse for her folly
and vast opportunity to indulge her folly in the social turmoil
of the war. And she is going the pace. Her men are gone, who
restrain her, and she has nothing in her head or her heart to
hold,
and she is in evidence. Her type always exaggerates its
importance, and fools people into thinking that her name is
Legion, and that Mr. Legion is an extensive polygamist, with
a raft of daughters and sisters and cousins and aunts, But she is
small in numbers and she is
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not important. She is merely conspicuous, and the moral
break-down in England, that one hears of in the baited breath of
the continent, is an illusion.
The elevator girl at Bucklands Hotel in London was a bright,
black-eyed, good looking woman in her late twenties. She wore a
green uniform with a crimson voile boudoir cap and as the
American stepped inside the slow-going car, she answered his
"good morning" with a respectful, "good morning, sir." Being a
good traveller, it seemed to me wise to prepare to while away
the tedium of the long easy journey to the fourth floor with a
friendly chat.
"Any of your relatives in the war?" This from me by way of an
ice-breaker.
"Yes, sir, my husband, sir," she replied as she grasped the
cable. She gave it a pull, and added "--or he was, sir. He's
home now, sir!"
"On leave?"
"O no, sir, he's wounded, sir--he lost his left arm at the
shoulder, sir, and he's going down to Roehampton today, sir, to
see if they can teach him some kind of a trade there, sir,"
answered the woman.
The wonders of Roehampton where they reeducate the cripples of
war and turn them out
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equipped with such trades as their maimed bodies may acquire had
been displayed for Henry and me the day before.
"Tell him to try typewriting and stenography,
one armed men are doing wonders with that down
at Roehampton. Any children?"
"Two, sir," she answered as the elevator approached the mezzanine
floor, "three and five, sir!"
"Three and five--well, well, isn't that fine! Aren't you lucky!
Tell him to try that stenography; that will put him in an office
and he'll have a fine chance to rise there. You must give them
an education--a good one; send them to College. If they're going
to get on in this new world they will need every ounce of
education you can stuff into them. But it will be a splendid
thing for both of you working for that. Is education expensive in
England?"
"Very, sir. I hardly see how we can do it, sir!"
"That's too bad--now in our country education, from the primer to
the university, is absolutely free. The state does the whole
business and in my state they print the school books, and more
than that they give a man a professional education, too, without
tuition fees--if he wants
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to become a lawyer or a doctor or an engineer or a chemist or a
school teacher!"
"Is that so, sir," the cable was running through her hands as she
spoke. Then she added as the elevator passed the second floor,
"If we could only have that here, sir. If we only could, sir!"
"Well, it will come. That's the next revolution you want to start
when you women get the ballot. Abolish these class schools like
Eton and Harrow and put the money into better board schools. All
the kids in my town, and in my state, and in my whole section of
the country go to the common schools. Children should start life
as equals. There is no snobbery so cruel as the snobbery that
marks off childhood into classes! When you women vote here, the
first thing to do is to smash that nonsense. But in the meantime
keep the kids in school."
"We've talked that all over," she answered. "And we're certainly
going to try. He'll have his pension, and I'll have this job and
he'll learn a trade and I think we can manage, sir!" The "sir"
came belated.
"Go to it, sister, and luck to you," cried her passenger as he
rose from his bench. The car was nearing the fourth floor.
"We shall," she answered; "no fear of that."
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She stopped the car, and they smiled as friends as she let him
out of the door. " Well--good morning," she said as he turned
down the corridor. The "sir" had left entirely when they reached
the fourth floor. And all the women of Europe, excepting perhaps
those still behind the harem curtains in Turkey and Germany of
whom we know nothing, are dropping the servile "sir" and are
emerging into life at the fourth floor as human beings.
It may be well to digress a moment in this narrative, from our
purely martial adventure, that we may consider for a few pages
the woman question as it is affected by the war. To me, if not to
Henry, who is highly practical, it seemed that in France and
Italy, but particularly in England, the new Heaven and the new
earth that is forming during this war, has created a new woman.
Indeed the European woman of the war is almost American in her
liberty. "European women," said a former American grand dame of
the old order, sipping tea with me at an embassy in the dim lit
gorgeousness of a mediaeval room, "are of two kinds: Those who
are being crucified by the war, and those who are abusing the new
found liberties which war has brought them!"
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"Liberties?" asked her colloquitor; not Henry. He had no patience
with these theoretical excursions into speculative realms.
"Liberties rather than privileges?"
"Yes, liberties. Privileges are temporary," purred the lady at
the embassy. "They come and go, but the whole trouble with this
new situation is that it is permanent. That also is part of the
crucifixion of those who suffer under it. These women never again
can return to the lives they have left, to the sheltering
positions from which the awful needs of this war have driven
them. The cultivated European woman, who I think on the whole was
the highest product of our civilization, has gone. She has fallen
to the American level."
"And the continental mistress system," prodded her American
interviewer, ironically, "will it, too, disappear with the
departed superiority of continental womanhood?"
"Yes, the mistress system too--if you want to call it a
system--and I suppose it is an institution--it too will become
degraded
and Americanized."
"Americanized?" the middle western eyebrows went up, and possibly
the middle western voice flinched a little. But the wise dowager
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from Bridgeport, Connecticut, living in Paris on New York Central
bonds, continued bitterly: "Yes, Americanized and vulgarized. The
continental mistress system is not the nasty arrangement that you
middle class Americans think it is. Of course there are European
men who acquire one woman after another, live with her a few
months or a few years and forget her. Such men are impossible."
She waved away the whole lady-chasing tribe with a contemptuous
hand.
"But the mistress system as we know it in Europe is the
by-product of a leisure class. Men and women marry for business
reasons. The women have their children to love, the man finds his
mistress, and clings to her for a lifetime. He cannot afford to
marry her--even if he could be divorced; for he would have to
work to support her, and be declassed. But he can support her on
his wife's money and a beautiful lifelong friendship is thus
cherished. It will disappear when men have to work, and when
women may go into the world to work without losing their social
positions. And this new order, this making the world safe for
democracy, as you call it, will rob civilization of its most
perfect flower--the cultivated woman who has developed under
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the shelter of our economic system. I might as well shock your
bourgeois morals now as later. So listen to this. Here is one of
the ways the women of Europe are suffering. I talked to a
French mother this morning. Her income is gone--part of it taxed
away, and the rest of it wiped away by the Germans in Northern
France. Her son has only a second lieutenant's income. In this
chaos she can find no suitable wife for him. One who is rich
today, tomorrow may be poor, so the dear fellow may not marry.
And he is looking for a mistress, and his mother fears he will
pick up a fool; for only a fool would take him on a lieutenant's
salary. And the weeping mother told me she would almost as soon
that her son should have no mistress as to have a fool! For
a man's mistress does make such a difference in his life! My
friend is almost willing to let him marry some bright poor girl
and go to work! The world never will know the suffering the
women of Europe are enduring in this war!"
Now we may switch off that record with the snort of woe which
Henry gave when he heard it. He was trying to tell a Duchess
about prohibition in Kansas, who had never heard of either Kansas
or prohibition and who was clearly scandalized at what she heard
of both. But
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Henry's other ear was open to what the embassy ornament was
saying to me. On the other side of this record of the swan song
of the lady of the embassy is this record. It is a man's voice.
The man has risen from an American farm, hustled his way into a
place where as manager of the London factory of an American
concern, he works several hundred employés.
"Say, let me tell you something--never again! Never again for
mine do the men come back into our shop. We may let a dozen or so
of 'em back to handle the big machines. But the next size, which
we thought that only men could handle--never again. And when they
come back these men will have to work under women foremen. We
thought when the war took our men bosses away that we should have
to close the shop. But say--never again, I tell you. And let me
give you a pointer. You wouldn't know them girls. When the war
broke out they were getting ten shillings--about $2.50 a week,
the best of 'em, and they were mean and slovenly and kind of
skinny and dirty, and every once in awhile one would drop out,
and the other girls had a great joke about her--you know. And
they would soak the shop whenever they got a chance! The boss had
to keep right after 'em, or they'd
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soldier on the job or break a machine, or slight the product, and
they'd lie--why, man, the whole works would stand up and lie for
each other against the shop. It took five men to boss them
where we have one woman doing it now. And say, it ain't the woman
boss that's done it. We pay 'em more. Them same girls is getting
ten and twelve and fifteen bucks a week now--Lawsee, man--you
ought to see 'em! Dressed up to kill; fat, cheerful, wide-awake!
Goddle-mighty, man, you wouldn't know 'em for that same measly
bunch of grouches we had three years ago. And they work for the
shop now, and not against it. They're different girls. I
wouldn't-a believed ten dollars a week would-a turned the trick;
but it's sure done it."
"Perhaps," suggested his acquaintance, "the girls are cheerful
and competent because they aren't afraid of poverty. Maybe they
are motived by hope of getting on in the world and not motived by
the terror of slipping down. Does that not make them stand by the
shop instead of working against it? Isn't it a developed middle
class feeling that accepts the shop as 'their kind of people'
now?"
"Search me, Cap--I give it up. I just only know what I know and
see what I see. And
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never again--you hear me, man--never again does our shop go back
to men. The ten or twelve dollar skirt has made a hit with me!
Have a cigarette?"
The net gain of women in this war, all over the world is, of
course, a gain in fellowship. But after all fellowship will be
futile if it does not bear fruit. And the first fruit of the
fellowship between men and women in Europe surely will be a wider
and deeper influence of women upon the destinies of the European
world. And who can doubt who knows woman, that her influence will
be thrown first and heaviest toward a just and lasting peace.
Often while we were in London, during the last days of our stay,
when the meaning of the war gradually was forming in our minds we
talked of these things. There are two Henrys--one, the owner of a
ten-story building in Wichita, the editor of a powerful and
profitable newspaper; the other a protagonist, a sentimental
idealist. To me this was his greatest charm--this infinite
variety of Henrys that was forever turning up in our discourse.
The owner of the Beacon building and the publisher of the news-
paper had small use for my theories about the importance of the
rise of woman into fellowship
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with men in the new democratization of the world. He refused to
see the democratization of the world in the war. To him the war
meant adjustment of boundaries, economic advantages, and
realignments of political and commercial influence on the map of
the world. But to the other Henry, to the crusader whom I had
seen many times setting out on the quest for the grail in
politics, throwing away his political fortunes for a cause and a
creed as lightly as a man would toss aside a cigar stub, the war
began to mean something more than its military expression.
And one night as we sat in our room waiting for dinner a letter
came up from the Eager Soul, with some trinkets she had sent over
to us by messenger to take to her mother in Denver. After telling
us the news of the hospital, and of Auntie and of the wound in
the Young Doctor's hand, she wrote:
"O how I hate war--hate it--hate it! And this war of all wars, I
hate it worst. It is so ruthless, so inexorably cruel; so utterly
meaningless, viewed at close range. Yesterday they brought me
into Northern France, and I spent the twilight last night looking
over the ruins of the local church. It is the most important
small church in Northern France and contains
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one of the earliest ribbed vaults in France, they say. It was
built about 1100, and now the thing is smashed. It is what our
artillerymen call a one-shot church. O the waste of it--churches,
men, homes, creeds! How many one-shot creeds have perished in
this hell-fire! Still out of the old I suppose the new will come.
But I have talked to women, to peasant women in their homes, to
noble women in hospitals; to women in their shops and women on
the farms, and I know that if the new world brings them as its
heritage, only the enlarged comradeship they are taking with men
in this time of suffering, then one thing is sure: We women will
strike an awful blow at future wars! The womanhood of the past,
someway, is like these sad, broken churches of France. It is
shattered and gone, and in its ruins we see its exquisite beauty,
its ineffable grace, its symbolism of a faith that once sufficed.
But it will not be restored. We shall build new temples; we shall
know new women. The old had to go, that the new might come. And
our new women and our new temples shall be dedicated, not merely
to faith, not merely to beauty, not merely to adoration but to
service, to service and comradeship in the world."
As he finished reading the letter Henry's eyes
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glistened. Its emotion had awakened the crusader, who said
gently: " Well, Bill, I presume it is the potential mother in
every woman that makes her worth while. And if this war will
only harness motherhood to the public conscience, the net gain
will be worth the war, however it is settled."